- New York -
Hi, My name is David, and it’s a pleasure for me to have this opportunity to tell you a little bit about me, my life, and my dream of wanting to be a Dad and devoting my life to a child, in hopes of helping you make the best decision for your child’s future. Before I start, I would like to first thank you for making this brave and selfless decision to look after the best interests of your child; as well as, looking into giving someone who is not able to become a parent in their own, the amazing
Hi, My name is David, and it’s a pleasure for me to have this opportunity to tell you a little bit about me, my life, and my dream of wanting to be a Dad and devoting my life to a child, in hopes of helping you make the best decision for your child’s future.
Before I start, I would like to first thank you for making this brave and selfless decision to look after the best interests of your child; as well as, looking into giving someone who is not able to become a parent in their own, the amazing opportunity to be a parent. I want you to know that, should you choose me, your child will always feel like a blessing for me and unselfishly loved by you and never feel like he or she was abandoned or not loved by you.
Whatever the circumstances you may be going through right now, I really, really want you to rest assured that your child will be in great hands, with an amazing family who will love him or her, care for him or her and always cheering him or her on in becoming the best version of him or herself, should you choose me to be the adoptive parent of your child.
Being a father, has been a dream of mine for as long as I remember, and thanks to you, it may finally become a reality.
I can’t wait to be able to devote my life, unconditionally love, teach so much, and provide limitless opportunities for your child!
You cannot imagine how grateful I am to have this opportunity to be able to provide the best life for your child, with a great support system, family cheering them on, and giving them advise, (which sometimes may not be what they want to hear), loving friends, neighbors, and lots of cousins! With this letter, I’m hoping to tell you a little bit about myself, my childhood, my life and how your child will have the best life, thanks to your tremendous sacrifice…
Thank you for taking the time to get to know a little bit about me and my family. I really want to reiterate once again how thankful I am for you considering me as the father of your child and for making this brave and selfless decision for the future of your baby and for making someone a parent, who is not able to have a child on their own. I would love to get to know more about you and your dreams for your child.
Whatever decision you make, please know that I wish you peace and joy. With love, David
I’m really looking forward to teaching your son or daughter how to crawl on the long lawn in my house, teaching him or her how to walk, (and hopefully not have too many scratches!) teach them how to ride a bike, to run after him or her as they ride their bike down the hill so they don’t hurt themselves too much!, to watching them yell at me and try to walk away because they don’t agree with me, to comforting them during their first heart break, to eventually hosting their pre-prom photos, graduations, supporting him or her through college and maybe beyond and eventually wedding, and even welcoming them back with open arms at any time any of their plans don’t quite plan out and assure them, to keep on trying, for as long as it takes!
There is nothing that I would not do for your child, so much I promise to do for this child and their life with me. You can rest assured that they will know your courage, tremendous sacrifice and deep love for them. I will always be there to wipe their tears, kiss their boo boos, listen and hug tightly when things are not so good for him or her. I will teach them to love with their whole hearts, to be honest, and will encourage them to try new things. I will instill confidence and a sense of pride in who they are and they will always know they are loved unconditionally by you and me and all of our family.
They will live in a home where they always feel safe, accepted, where they can feel they can be the best or worst version of themselves. Provide the best possible education so they can pursue their dreams and find success and happiness in whatever they may choose to do. You can feel confident that they will grow up knowing I have their back, I will be their biggest cheerleader and will support them in achieving their dreams at all times. They will grow up knowing nothing is beyond their reach. We will have so much fun – dancing around the living room with loud music, have family game nights, be silly, pillow fights and laugh lots! As they grow up, I will ensure they know it is ok to make mistakes. We all make them. Please rest assured your child will not be alone. He or she will be surrounded by an amazing family who will love them, care for them and always cheering them on in becoming the best version of themselves. They are getting a whole cheerleading team, who are all super excited to embrace them.
I own a beautiful home in New York. Not New York City, but north of New York City in the Catskill Mountains. It’s a really nice two-story house, on top of a mountain, overlooking the Catskills Mountain range, the last house on a cul-de-sac. It has a beautiful fenced in pool, with child safe alarms, a hill we use to sled down the snow in the winter, and hiking trails just at our door step.
Their school is just down the hill, where aside from regular classes, they teach about nature, agriculture, plants, animals. There’s even a little farm with lots of animals where they teach kids how to care for them. I’m friendly with my neighbors on my street, who all have kids and grandkids over quite frequently. It’s an area that I’m proud to call it my own paradise.
I’m also a dog lover – my dog Marshal is amazing with children. When he was born, my youngest nephew was 2 years old, and they have been each other’s best friend ever since. He’s learned to be gentle with people, specially kids and just fill people with kisses and hugs!
I’m so excited being able to become a father now, as I enjoy very active. I look forward to teaching him or her how to play sports, if they so choose, to chasing them around the house! As you may have gathered, I will also be a single father. Fatherhood is so important to me that I have lived my entire life preparing for it in a way (I was even present at my little brother’s birth) and I am mentally, emotionally, logistically and financially ready so I don’t want to wait to find Mr. Right. While one day I hope to have a partner who will join me in this amazing journey, he will only become part of our lives as long as he loves and values children and family as much as me and my family do, can give this child the unconditional love and care, and will always put your child first.
I have 2 sisters and a brother, Diana, Aliana & Daniel. Daniel is in college and Aliana just graduated from college and Diana is the oldest of us three
Diana has three boys, whom I adore wholeheartedly and I have been a big part of their lives since birth. One’s a young teenager by now, and can’t wait for a new baby. My sister Diana and are so close that I was at the birth of all three inside the hospital room. Apparently, my brother-in-law thought it was him giving birth, and they had to get him a bed of his own during my nephews’ births. It has all been a privilege for me to be there for my nephews’ births, unique each time.
My mom has literally lived right next door to my sister from the moment she had her first baby, and she is also close to mine. Her and my dad, Victor, are the kind of people that would drop everything, just to take care of their grandbabies. I get teased a lot by my family as they all think I’m my “parent’s favorite” and when I have a kid, I’m sure they’ll forget about the whole world and just focus on the baby – so I’m basically giving everyone a head start with their own families, because they know once there is a baby in my house, they will forget about the whole world and just focus on the baby with me.