Every birth mother has the right to choose the amount of openness she desires in the adoptive relationship and has the ability to control the level of openness in the adoption plan. When considering families, it is imperative to choose the family that is open to your requests. Statistically, adoptees thrive in environments where adoption has been an open process, however, it is not always possible nor is it always what expectant mothers choose. Adoption For My Child honors any level of openness you choose to pursue and hope it is a positive experience for both birth parents and adoptive parents alike.